Bdsm-relationship or not: household chores need to be done. There will always be dishes to do, meals to be cooked, cupboards to clean, floors to be vacuumed and laundry to be taken care of. And there is no reason why these should not be incorporated into the BDSM dynamics. The only thing is: it needs to be taken out of the ordinary.
The good thing is: BDSM offers a lot of options to make things more exciting, usually simply by making them (more) difficult or demanding.
One important thing: just having to do household duties is not exciting. It needs to be turned into something special! Read on…
Tip #1
Any modern household is usually well-equiped with all sorts op apparel to make life easier: washing machines, dishwashers, vacuum cleaners, you name it.
So, why not give her a choice. Such as: “one more complaint about having to clean the house and the vacuum cleaner goes out the door and you can broom and scrub instead.”
That may sound tough in the beginning, but be firm and strict and she will soon get the point. It will mean she will have to work to keep “her” vacuum cleaner. Or “her” dishwasher. Or her “you name it”.
That will signal a very powerful message and suddenly the vacuum cleaner will become a BDSM-toy instead of household apparel.
One important thing is to make clear she has her fait in her own hands. Bragging about chores will make them even worse and more difficult, so she had better do what she is supposed to do and keep her lips firmly shut.
Chores Tip #2
Another option is to require her to dress in a specific outfit while performing her tasks.
A French maid costume os course is very appealing, but not always an option with kids around, for example. This can be taken care of by simply designating one specific “normal” dress for household duties and maybe require some other things, such as removing make up first, putting her hair in a ponytail, etcetera.
If you want to be rude designate one or two of her best or dearest dresses as “household dress” and of course – if you have that option – there is always the possibility of requiring sexy clothing, BDSM-outfits or simply nothing at all.
All this, too, will spice up what is “normal”, take it out of the ordinary and turn it into a BDSM-related activity.
Another trick is to created especially prepared clothing, that on the outside looks perfectly normal. A thick woolen dress for example is just a dress but not very practical when doing chores since it will soon make her sweat. On step further is to put jute or hemp lining in the “chores dress”, which will make it very uncomfortable and itchy.
Chores Tip #3
Another trick is to have her spent designated time in, for example, the kitchen where she can cook, do dishes, maybe even take care of laundry and ironing and such. Chaining her up, adding a (humiliating) special dress, etcetera will again all help to create a BDSM situation.
Remember that it does not necessarily have to be “fun”. In fact “no fun is fun” is usually one of the basic principles of BDSM and the more demanding the situation is, the more realistic things become. She may need to get used to such an approach, but it does drive the point of being a slave home!
Strictness, firmness and being demanding is what domination is all about and while this – to her – may be tough in the beginning, she will not only get used to it, it will simply turn her whole life around, which is eventually what 24/7 BDSM is all about.
Successful 24/7 BDSM masters are usually very strict, demanding and often quite sadistic and do not show an overdose of compassion.
If you have kids around, or for any other reason can not be all that explicit, simply designate “kitchen hours” during which she has to stay in the kitchen and doing what she has to, or can, do.
Chores Tip #4
The final key to success is: inspections. Frequent inspections, regulars ones as well as unannounced surprises!
The important thing is that the slave sees her master is just as committed as she is (or as he wants her to be). Inspections signal interest, commitment and underline the importance of the task at hand, chores and the priority level, the master has set for this task.
And of course neglected, incomplete, unfulfilled or poorly executed tasks will lead to punishment – hence more commitment and more fun and BDSM-activity. As a result the entire BDSM-dynamics of the relationship will become much more important and you will have lots and lots of opportunities to breath new life into the relationship.
One important thing: do not come up with too many jobs and tasks. The slave needs to be able to fulfill them and you need to be able to control and manage them.
